Friday, August 31, 2018

Adventures in Amsterdam

coolest property: canals, animals, tramp, fields, barns
biking to the shops
who needs a child seat - got rope?
Similar to our Fijian "layover" on the way home from Australia, we opted to spend a few days in Amsterdam on our way to the UK. What a treat! The Netherlands/Holland is a wet, green land of canals, bicycles, weed, pancakes, windmills, cheese, chocolate, stroopwaffles and wooden shoes. The people are friendly, the nightlife is memorable, and the history rich. We thoroughly enjoyed our stay.


one word: jetlag






After a fairly uneventful ten hour flight, we hastily grabbed a few days' worth of things from our duffels and put them in storage at the airport (a 21 bag "record" - the workers even took pics, but in hindsight: possibly worth the struggle to have transported them, as it ended up costing an arm and a leg.) Darren had booked an Airbnb outside of town that boasted animals on the property and bikes for getting into town. Despite the major issue of having no children' bikes/seats (& the bed bugs!) it was a delightful, old place out in the countryside and the littles did love meandering amongst the farm animals. We arrived before it was ready so we all crashed on the porch for a few hours while the boys threw rocks in the green canals and pet the horses, pigs, chickens, sheep and froggies.

That afternoon as folks slept off their jet lag, I told Desi to hold on tight and we took a beautiful, bumpy ride through small dirt paths in green, wet fields to the nearest shop. Shopping for groceries in a new country is one of my favorite parts about traveling abroad, so we took our time and enjoyed the guesswork that foreign language/packaging affords. Unfortunately, I had to leave my cart full of delicious Dutch delicassies at the store as they only took cash or bank cards. The only other food option was a Burger King nearby (gross) and there my card was denied. But the manager took pity on me and my plight and comped us the food, asking that we come pay later. Once Darren awoke, we took a sunset ride back through the fields and paid the kind man, but alas the market was closed. Upon third try in the morning, I finally successfully purchased the food and had a lovely "European" breakfast waiting for all our sleepy heads.
girls were really soaking it all in on our canal ride...



Van Gogh Museum was impressive
Dan the Man
The next day was spent downtown at three different museums, followed by a canal cruise and dinner. The Anne Frank House (which we’d followed good advice to purchase tix to months ago) was well done and much larger than I’d imagined. The “coffee shops” (where people buy/sell/smoke marijuana) were hardly noticeable and it seemed a very family friendly city to me. It’s truly an anomaly with all the waterways, myriad bikes, and cars/humanity flowing over each flower filled bridge.




always wanted to try a HOT stroopwaffle 

it only took this guy 5 minutes to make a pair of wooden shoes


the green growth on the water in all the small canals was so beautiful

We were all sufficiently exhausted to avoid another zombie night of jet lag, we hoped.

The next morn, I biked Will to a bus with my phone and some cash, to catch a train down one hour to see his friend Aiden who moved from Utah last year. Proud of him for having the courage to travel out on his own in a totally foreign place! The rest of us did some touristy things in the smaller surrounding villages, like cheese-tasting, windmills, painted houses, a wooden shoe factory and some seafood at the seaside.





A few of us were coming down with something, but after a hot shower and nap, I felt like a million bucks, and since everyone else wanted to hit the hay Darren joked "well, you can just bike in and see the famous red light district alone." I think he regretted it as I latched onto the idea, but with Google maps, a half working bike and our one working phone, I felt ready to take on the world. I'd heard Amsterdam is quite safe so I started off at dusk, (40 minutes each way but the bike paths were mostly lit except for the final 15 min stretch back to our country home.) Man, the nightlife of Amsterdam is world-renowned for a reason! While the night workers in the windows were more disturbing than enticing, the lighted bridges, canals, alleys and streets all crawling with people and action and food and movement - it was a smorgasbord of life. I'm glad I didn't miss it. (And I'm glad Darren and Will did!)


Sunday, August 26, 2018

The Move

waiting for the taxi van upon landing in England (we filled it to the brim with our 28 bags)
our cross-the-creek cousins tearful goodbye
besties torn apart - Isa was one of the fam :( 











We applied for this job over a year ago. Heard nothing for about nine months - like, it just disappeared. We even visited Cheltenham on our 2 wk UK adventure (to celebrate Darren's graduation) but we basically wrote it off. Then in a flurry of excitement, it was back on the table and Voila, he landed it. The kids had had over a year to get used to the idea, let it sit and settle, see it pass by, miss it and then realize that yes, we did want to go if we got the chance again. I must say I'm proud of their courage in accepting our invitation to do this together. With Kenna just about to enter high school, and Annie going into Junior High, they've felt the sting the worst, but have been bravely enthusiastic about the exciting change and newness, especially imagining the European travel that will be available to us.
tantrum to dead asleep during LONG customs 
getting creative with Danny's sleepy head




just a couple of the injuries during our move week 
late night games/feast/goodbye party - miss these peeps
My dear Mom recently passed away so the lead up to this move has been unique. The grieving, family engagements/trips, and settling of her estate has taken the forefront of all my energies this summer, so a couple days before we were to pack up, things got serious and we filled our 10 trusty green
sweet girl wanted lunch at my
parents' gravesite after her baptism
duffels with everything we might need for the next two months while our stuff would be in transit. With school/sports starting soon upon our arrival, the "to do" and "to pack" lists on my phone were significant, and Darren was a true magician selling/fixing/buying/arranging in timely manner - we managed to keep just ahead of the packers and get it all done. Darren was in and out of town that week (driving the minivan to CA for shipment and a prior-planned sibling trip), and our movers weren't super professional (some disturbing stories there) so it was hairy with me running on just a few hours sleep a night. But we made it into our hotel, borrowed a car or two (thanks Steve & Skidmores), hosted Summer's baptism, swam, ate and lived it up with friends & family for 11 days, (even popping into the ER three separate times for a car crash, broken foot, and head wound!) By the time the painful goodbyes came, our emotions were running high and many tears flowed. We so treasure our close family relationships cultivated there, and the exceptional friendships that have blossomed between our children and their peers. It was a hard goodbye.

Monday, August 20, 2018

Back In the Saddle Again

Well, that last post was a doozy to end on, four years ago! Wowsers. Glad life has improved since then :) We have definitely ridden some major waves since and survived some major lows, but life is real good. And now that we're overseas again, it's time to dust off this old blog. (Instagram ain't gonna cut it as far as documenting the fam in England for our collective memories, methinks.)

Our years back in Utah were wonderfully rich with family  time, and the kids have grown bigger and stronger with all the many extracurriculars they were involved in. Will thrived on a couple State championship rugby teams (and got a few concussions from football, to boot), Kenna developed into a stunning dancer and songwriter, Annie made short work of adding lacrosse to her soccer skills, Summer honed her love of dance and performing, and Des & Dan enjoyed Joyschool with me at home (continuing to climb, wrestle and jump off everything in sight.) Darren completed an Executive MBA at the UofU (so proud of him, but it just about killed me solo parenting six kids from newborn to teens), and I got lucky enough to share my hobby with the kids as they each were able to do a few screen productions with the great film crews of Utah (even starring in a couple school plays.) It has been awesome.

And now we start a new adventure...we just moved to Cheltenham, England for the next 3 years. Being in the Cotswolds, (a couple hours west of London by the Welch border) we are initially impressed at the gorgeousness of our surroundings. The kids are being champs despite some of the road bumps I'll document later. Slowly, we are settling in, and I think this is going to be great.

Much love and stay tuned!